Your Law of Attraction Questions Answered -FREE!

by LOA Guru Jack Cox

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Legal disclaimer: All answers are given in good faith but no responsibility can be accepted for the consequences of following the advice given.

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Your questions answered free:

Question: Hi Jack, I recently used the Law of Attraction to get an interview for my dream job. In the weeks leading up to the interview, I repeated my affirmations on a regular basis, surrounded myself with positive energy and began to truly feel that the job was mine. The interview went really well and I came out feeling even more confident that this was the perfect position for me. Then last week, the company contacted me to say I hadn't got the job and I was devastated. I still believe that this is the perfect position for me. Is it unrealistic of me to put all my thoughts and energy into still trying to attract this job even if it has been offered to someone else? I don't want to give up hope that I can still work for this company and in this industry. Thanks, Questioner

Jack's Answer: Hello 'Questioner', thank you for your question. Whether or not you pass an interview is up the the discretion of the interviewer. As I keep saying in these pages, you can't use the Law of Attraction to influence another person. What you can do is to work on changing yourself. The whole principle upon which these teachings are based is that we can attract whatever we want for ourselves, there is more than enough for everyone, we don't need to take from other people.

Lets just fantasise for a minute. Let's pretend you could use some kind of black magic to get that job. Let's fantasise that you cast a spell. What would need to happen for the spell to work? The company has already given the job to someone else. Tomorrow the boss phones you and says "Are you still interested in the job? We had offered it to someone else but yesterday she was run over by a truck and killed. She was a widow with three young children". 

How would you feel about the job then? How would you feel about yourself? Fortunately for us, for everyone, the Law of Attraction is not some kind of black magic (white magic, for the greater good of all, possibly).

So how should you use the LoA before your next interview? Visualise yourself in the interview being calm and in control, saying and doing all the right things, giving all the right answers, smiling and laughing just enough but not too much and hearing the words "I think you are just perfect for this position (your name here)". As you hear these words in your visualisation, remember that it happening because you performed well, not because you used the LoA to influence the interviewer.

In the meantime, while waiting for your next opportunity, visualise another, even better, job being advertised in the same industry. Don't use the LoA to try and get the same job re-advertised. That would be praying for the other person to mess up and that would be black magic. I hope this helps to clarify things for you and I am sure you will find the right position for yourself very soon. Jack

Question: Hi Jack, there is this girl that I like a lot. We were good friends until I told her I like her. She has stopped talking to me since then and deleted me from Blackberry and blocked me on Facebook. She doesn't answer my calls or emails. I felt horrible and deactivated my Facebook account, I also got rid of my Blackberry connection.

We haven't spoken for at least two months now. I miss her and love her a lot. I want her back in my life and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I am trying to visualise it every now and then. I have written down how happy we are to be together, I have our picture as the home screen image of my phone but I do get low once in a while and stop believing.

Can you help me with this. What should I do? Thanks G

Jack's Answer: Oh 'G', I do sympathise with your predicament and feel your pain, I really do, but (as I keep on saying in these pages, over and over again), you can't use the Law of Attraction to control other people. What you can do however is to use it to control yourself. Visualising every now and then, as you say, is futile. To get results you will need to visualise and say affirmations at least three times a day, every day. Don't try to change this girl, it simply will not work. She is using the Law of Attraction herself, whether consciously or unconsciously. Instead visualise yourself saying and doing all the right things to please her and satisfy her needs. Visualise yourself BECOMING exactly the right person. Really get into the FEELING of it, as if it had already happened.

In your affirmations say something like "I am so grateful and happy that I have already become the sort of person the girl who is right for me wants to be with. I am filled with joy when I satisfy all of her needs and make her happy".

The "the girl who is right for me" bit is essential, don't be tempted to substitute this girl's name. She may be the person you think will make you happy but the universe may know better. You may be in love with a specific person but what you really want is the happiness. Don't limit the universe by telling it how to make you happy. That just won't work, it will only bring you more pain. Trust me on this please, I have been there many times. I have a wardrobe full of flipping T-shirts and so will you if your don't learn from my mistakes instead of blindly repeating them. To your happiness, Jack

Question: Hi Jack, My name is Lee. I believe in the Law of Attraction and recently read two books on it. Since, I have been reciting daily affirmations, helping others, and thinking positive, I have noticed several small amounts of unplanned money coming in just in the nick of time. Just this weekend I received $170 dollars unexpectedly. My questions are two-fold. I am just 36 years young.

1) Does the moon's energy play a role in the LoA? On 6th March 2012 I woke at 2am to a light shinning from my skylights. I have owned the home for almost seven years now and have never experienced such a thing. All of the lights were turned off but it was as if it was day in my bedroom. It was the moon shinning though my skylights. The light was so bright, warm and powerful I could not help but to gaze at it. I asked family and neighbours who live in my neighbourhood and who also have skylights and it appears I was the only person awakened by its energy and brightness. I was not able to sleep even after the moon's light went away. Since then, my vision has been blurred but I have had this unexplained luck. I feel like the luckiest person on earth.

2) As recently as two days ago I dreamed about what I had been asking from the universe. In the dream, it was just as I asked. What is the significance of dreams and does this mean my wants have penetrated by subconscious mind and now its just a case of waiting? Thanks, Lee.

Jack's Answer: Hello Lee. These are interesting questions. When it comes to subjective things like these its hard to give definitive answers. As I describe in my course, the thing that matters is what you personally believe and expect to happen. If you truly believe these were true omens than so it will be for you.

With regard to the moon, yes she most certainly has a profound affect on the Law of Attraction. To use the LoA efficiently, empower your intent with lots of emotion. About 60% (by weight) of our bodies is water. It varies from individual to individual and is less in older people but that's a reasonable ball-park figure. Just look at the ocean tides, caused by the moon, and you will get an idea of what she is doing to us. The effect is huge causing us to be more emotional around full moon. So the full moon is the best time to send your intent out to the universe. Witches have always known this. These is something else about the moon and that is the light she reflects. I can't explain this scientifically but moonlight seems to affect our brain weave patterns, shifting us into Alpha or even Theta. Meditation under a full moon is very powerful.

It is unlikely that the moon only shone through your skylight but the fact that you woke, and were deeply moved by the experience suggests that you were giving out a compatible vibration yourself. Maybe this is an indication that working with moon energy and with the moon phases may be especially productive for you.

Dreams are a very complex subject. Much research has been done on the nature of dreams. Dream interpretation is a highly individual thing. I am always suspicious of authors and scientists who try to say that something has the same meaning for everybody. So I must leave you to draw your own conclusion about the meaning of your dream. Please do try to cultivate that feeling of being incredibly lucky. That feeling will bring you everything you desire. If the moon helps you to feel that way then work with her and you will manifest the things you desire.

My very best wishes, Jack

Question: Hi Jack, My name is Julie. First I really want to thank you for what you are doing. It means so much to me. I've recently watched a film named  "The Secret" . It made me determined to completely change my way of thinking. Now I wake up every morning with this big smile on my face. I removed the negative thoughts and introduced my wishes and goals. I want to know if it is good that I'm constantly daydreaming that those things are already into my life.

My scope is clear: I want a certain person into my life. He is a celebrity. One thing I know for sure, I truly want him in my life, this is my principal wish. I'm always daydreaming and imagining that I've reached my goals. I also feel joy, hope and I'm transferring myself into the specific feeling, it is almost the same as if it happened.

Please let me know if this method is working. Could it really happen? Will this person appear into my life? Will he feel the way I do? Will the Universe rearrange itself to fulfil my dreams? What should I do next? In the film it is said that the only things that we have to do is ask, feel like it is already ours and be grateful.

I'd like to thank you from the bottom of my heart again, Julie

Jack's Answer: Hello Julie. first let me say that the things you are doing will attract anything you desire into your life if you believe (on a subconscious level) that it will work and expect it to work. Please let me repeat "will attract any thing". However people are not things. People have their own agendas and are using the Law of Attraction themselves too, whether they are aware of it or not. So no, sorry, you can't use the LoA to attract a specific named person. If you could it would be highly unethical anyway. 

What you can do is to attract a person like him, a person with the same characteristics. For further clarification please see my answer to "Questioner" further down this page. In order to attract a person with the same characteristics, just carry on doing what you are already doing with the slight difference that now you are working for someone similar rather than that specific person. Stay open to your intuition and when you get an hunch about some action to take, take it quickly. The universe likes speed.

Good luck and please do let me know how you get on.. Jack

Question: Hi Jack, I have been able to use the law of attraction to get a new job get rid of stress and avoid illnesses but there is an area in my life which I don't know what I want. I have been with my children's father for 13 years and we have been through a lot. A lot of it has been with me putting positive thoughts in order to help him out of drugs, drug dealing, cheating, and becoming a better father. He is now drug free, has a job, is there for me and my children, and is happy with our lives. I on the other hand still don't see him as the type of guy that I want. I have always pictured myself with a hard working man who takes initiative to do things around the house, is a handy man and of course his personality meshing well with mine. He is not like that. He waits for me to tell him what to do. I have to plan everything in ours and our children's lives, he would rather pay for someone to cut the grass and fix things than doing it himself.  When it comes to work he's pretty lazy, and we have very different personalities where we don't understand each other. I love and care about him but it's more like a care for a child not a lover. I am really confused on what I want, I don't know if I should get over it and deal with it for my children and the sake of being a family or if I should tell him I am not happy. If I tell him I am not happy I don't know how to tell him why because after everything we have been through I stuck with him and now that he is the best he's ever been I am going to tell him that I don't want to be with him? I don't know if there is something wrong with me for feeling this way. I need help figuring out what to do when I don't know what I want. Please don't tell me that it sounds like I know what I want, that is also obvious to me, I just don't know if what I want is the right thing to do. How can I figure this out? Evelyn

Jack's Answer: Hello Evelyn, Thank you for your question. First I must cover myself by saying that I am a Law of Attraction coach not a relationship counsellor. People usually tell me what they want and I tell them how to attract it into their lives. As you don't know what you want this is going to be a bit tricky. But you do want things, you want clarity, you want a satisfying relationship and you want happiness. So lets concentrate on attracting those. You have already used the LoA to attract a new job, and good health so I will presume that you understand the basic techniques. You could start by visualising and affirming for the things you want, clarity, a satisfying relationship and happiness. When you visualise a satisfying relationship try not to project your partner's (or anyone else's) face into the image. This way you are leaving open the possibility of it being with him or not. Leave that to the universe. Visualise yourself being happy and contented in a satisfying relationship. As to clarity, try asking yourself questions such as "Accepting that I really do love my partner, what do I need to do in order to enjoy a satisfying relationship and family life". Then really listen to the answer from that small voice within.

The answer may well come that you need to talk frankly with him about how you feel, give him the opportunity to change before you throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Let me close by sharing a personal experience of mine. For seven years I was with a really sweet, beautiful, wonderful, big hearted woman. We were married for six of those years. She wasn't perfect in my eyes but she was as close to perfect as makes little difference. The only drawback was that she couldn't hold her drink and I used to feel great embarrassment each time she kicked off in a public place such as a restaurant. We had a business together which meant we were together 24/7. If only we could have had some space, space for me to take a more dethatched view of things. Then maybe I could have helped my wife overcome her problem. We were never apart, my wife was always in my face and I didn't make the effort to help her. Instead I walked out and divorced her. That was five years ago and not a single day has passed when I have not regretted leaving her. I think about her and miss her every day, faults and all. Just bear my experience in mind before throwing the baby out with the bathwater as I did. Faults can be changed, with love and more patience. Heck you have already helped him give up drugs. Compared to that, how hard can it be to help him become more proactive around the house? My very best wishes, Jack

Question: Hi Jack, I work at a restaurant and a customer asked me quite shyly for my number. I was stunned and blubbered "Haha seriously?"  To which he hastily said "No" and continued eating. I also blubbbered something like "I think I'm too young for this." which may have been taken as an insult, I'm not sure (he looked a good 8-9 years older, I'm only 18). I didn't give him my number but thinking back I wanted to! I want to use the law of attraction to literally summon his physical presence and apologise properly as well as actually pass him the number. How do I go about this?
Thanks Questioner

Jack's Answer: Hello Questioner, Thank you for your question If you are familiar with my writings you will know that I like to quote Bill Harris a lot. In particular I like his saying that "Whatever you want there is a certain way of thinking and acting that will get it for you. Your job is to find out what it is and to be flexible enough to adopt it." Unfortunately this does not apply to specific named people. Just like you, the man who asked for your phone number has free will. Just like you, he is working (whether he realises it or not) with the Law of Attraction. So no, unfortunately we can not say that "whoever you want, there is a certain way of thinking and acting that will get him or her for you". If only life were that simple. However when two people are really on the same wavelength they are naturally attracted to each other by the Law of Attraction.

Your job now is to get your fears and shyness out of the way so the LoA can either bring him back or bring you someone similar. Getting clear is probably the most important part of the LoA. When you are clear about what you want, you will react appropriately next time a dishy guy asks for your number. As you follow my free course you will learn a lot more about this. Good luck. Jack

Question: Hello Jack, Well my question is simple. I am Hispanic and I love white women. I want to get married to a white woman and have babies with her. The place that I come from has very few white women and I myself do not know any. How do I go about it using the Law of Attraction? Please help. Thanking you, K.R.

Jack's Answer: Hello K.R. First let me stress for the benefit of the people reading this that the terminology is yours and not mine. Secondly let me assure you that yours is not as big a problems as you probably think it is. Don't worry about how its going to happen. The 'how' is not your concern. Your job is to get clear about the 'why'. If the 'why' is big enough the 'how' will take care of itself and the Universe will arrange itself for you. I strongly suggest that you enrol on my free eCourse and follow all the steps I teach you there. If you do, then the woman of your dreams WILL come into your life, no doubt about it! She is looking for you right now but there are certain things you need to do to make it happen and I explain what those things are in the course.

The very best of luck, Jack

Question: Hello Jack. Since last year I have been a Letting Negotiator working in Hull, England. However in August, I saw a job advertised on the internet for a similar position to my current job only with better pay. So I subsequently applied. They had me for an interview the very next day, and within an hour of my interview they called me up and offered me the job. I worked my two weeks notice at my job in Hull, and started my new job on the 20th September. On Tuesday 28th September a close friend of my new boss came into the office and asked to see if there was a job going. They arranged to go out for tea and a chat, that very night. My day off was a Wednesday. I got a phone call on Wednesday morning from my boss, stating I was no longer needed as she was sacking me. I hadn't done anything wrong, had no warnings or anything. I haven't got a contract of employment. Am I entitled to claim for wrongful dismissal or loss of earnings, seeing as I resigned from my old job to take up this new role? It seems very wrong that a firm can just sack me like that after resigning from a good job, to come to them, and doing nothing wrong. Is there anything I can do? Harneiss

Jack's Answer: Hello Harneiss. What a bummer! Firstly I must stress that I am not  qualified to offer legal advice. If you are considering suing you need to get qualified legal advise, or at the very least, well meaning advice from the Citizens Advice Bureau, but don't mess about, go and see a solicitor. You could also swallow your pride, talk to your previous employer, explain what has happened and ask for your old job back. 

You are adamant that you did nothing wrong but is that really true? Did you really do the very best job you could possibly do? Now I have a reputation for being blunt so here goes. If you wrote to the company's customers the same way you just wrote to me, full of spelling mistakes and capitalisation errors, I would sack you too (what appears above is my cleaned up, corrected version of what you wrote). You really must get into the habit of giving your very best in every moment, regardless of what activity you are engaged in. When you have mastered that, start going the extra mile (all explained in depth in my  free eCourse).

Then consider whether being sacked realty was a bad thing in your life. I know it looks that way now but five years from now, when you look back, you may see how it fits into a bigger pattern. No guarantees but it often happens that way. Back in the 1980s I was starting to learn the principles I now teach. I was doing my affirmations and my visualisations every day. At the time I had a dead end job earning 200 pounds a week in Kent. I clung to that crappy job so hard because I had nothing else. I had just lost the relationship of a lifetime too and that played on my mind so much it affected my work and eventually I got the sack. I was devastated!!! I had lot everything. Well almost everything, I did have a new girlfriend. I wasn't really ready for a new relationship but she was very kind and understanding and was helping me a lot. In fact she taught me most of this Law of Attraction stuff although we didn't call it that then. Looking back, meeting that woman was probably the best thing that ever happened in my life.

The downside was that she lived in East London, an hour and a half from where I was in Kent. When I told her I had been sacked and could no longer afford to make the long journey to see her, see insisted I cut my expenses in half by moving into her flat. "We will manage somehow" she said. Although this country boy hated the idea of moving to a filthy (in those days) inner city slum, I accepted her offer. 

Walking through the High Street one day we came across a rundown indoor market with a booth to let. We thought, "let's give it a go". It cost me all my severance pay (one month's wages) to rent that small booth and stock it with perfumery items, bath candles, potpourri, and that kind of stuff. Anyway in that dirty, smelly area it was a knockout. Soon we moved into bigger premises. To cut a long story short, that was my start in life and had it not been for the two biggest disasters of my life in quick succession, none of it would have happened. 

I don't know whether you are intentionally using the Law of Attraction (LoA) and doing any affirmations and visualisations but if you are, this disaster may just be your gateway to your new life, as it was for me. The thing about the Law of Attraction is that it is always working, every second, whether you are intentionally using it or not. If you are thinking about what you don't want (worrying) then the LoA will bring you whatever you are worrying about. However if you are working the LoA deliberately, if your predominate thoughts are about the life you do want, this apparent disaster may just be clearing the decks for something very much better. Christians tend to say "The Lord moves in mysterious ways, his wonders to behold". Whether you prefer to say 'The Lord', The Universe', 'The Is', 'The God and Goddess' or whatever, that is a very true saying. Again all this is explained in great depth in my free Course. I hope it all works out for you, Jack. 

Question: Hi Jack I am very much new to the Law of Attraction, so my question is very basic. Can I use the LoA for some one else? If I think good for someone else will it happen? I want to help my brother because I love my brother very much. He is having problems finding a job. He thinks positively and practically, I mean materialistically. Unless otherwise there is a chance of hope he won't feel gratified (like most people). How can I help my brother? Thanks, Shar

Jack's Answer: Hello Shar, This is one of those thorny questions. Using the Law of Attraction for other people is not really such a good idea. Apart from the ethical question, LoA does not really work that way. Thoughts lead to inspired actions which lead to results. How can your thoughts lead to his inspired action? Of course your thoughts can lead to your inspired action. If you use the Law of Attraction to attract ideas you can use to help your brother that should be ok, that should work.

You can help your brother in so many ways. You can help him boost his self-confidence by the way you treat him and speak to him. You can give him practical help by looking for jobs with him and helping him improve his C.V. All that kind of stuff will really help. Probably the most important thing you can do is tell him about the Law of Attraction and explain to him how, what he thinks and feels, will have a direct effect on the results he gets in his life. Share my free Course with him or better still, invite him to register for it himself.  My very best wishes, Jack

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