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Your Law
of Attraction Questions Answered -FREE! |
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by LOA
Guru Jack Cox |
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Have a question about the Law of
Attraction? Not sure how to apply it in your
own life? Maybe I can help you succeed. Your
success is important to me so just
send
your questions to me and I will try to give practical
assistance in these pages. I encourage you to
contact me directly any time you have questions,
need help or advice, or just need someone to
confirm that you're on the right track. I'll be up
front and honest. I don’t
pretend to have all the answers but if I can
help you I will. Just think of me a bit like a
free agony uncle but hopefully you will find my
comments rather more practical. This is a free service
BUT please do read all my replies on
these pages FIRST. I may be that I have
already answered your question or one very
similar. If your question is NEW I will
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don't have all the answers. If you feel you have
something to contribute, please
share
your thoughts with us. If you wish to remain anonymous
that's fine but if you want your name to be used, including
contact details and a link to your website, that's fine
too. So whether you are asking a question or answering one,
remember to say what you need every time you write in.
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disclaimer: All answers are given in good faith but no
responsibility can be accepted for the consequences of
following the advice given. |
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"If you realized how powerful your thoughts are,
you would never think a negative thought." |
"Too many people
unnecessarily complicate the Law of Attraction.
There are only THREE things you need to know:
1) Everything is emery
2) Like
attracts Like
3) Whatever you focus on expands.
If you understand and abide by three three
rules, everything will take care of itself." |
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Peace Pilgrim (born Mildred Norman) peace activist and spiritual leader. |
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Chiao Kee Lim |
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Your questions answered free: |
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Question: Hi Jack, I recently used
the Law of Attraction to get an interview for my dream job.
In the weeks leading up to the interview, I repeated my
affirmations on a regular basis, surrounded myself with
positive energy and began to truly feel that the job was
mine. The interview went really well and I came out feeling
even more confident that this was the perfect position for
me. Then last week, the company contacted me to say I hadn't
got the job and I was devastated. I still believe that this
is the perfect position for me. Is it unrealistic of me to
put all my thoughts and energy into still trying to attract
this job even if it has been offered to someone else? I
don't want to give up hope that I can still work for this
company and in this industry. Thanks, Questioner |
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Jack's Answer: Hello 'Questioner',
thank you for your question. Whether or not you pass an
interview is up the the discretion of the interviewer. As I
keep saying in these pages, you can't use the Law of
Attraction to influence another person. What you can do is
to work on changing yourself. The whole principle upon which
these teachings are based is that we can attract whatever we
want for ourselves, there is more than enough for everyone,
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Lets just fantasise for a minute. Let's
pretend you could use some kind of black magic to get that
job. Let's fantasise that you cast a spell. What would need
to happen for the spell to work? The company has already
given the job to someone else. Tomorrow the boss phones you
and says "Are you still interested in the job? We had
offered it to someone else but yesterday she was run over by
a truck and killed. She was a widow with three young
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How would you feel about the job then?
How would you feel about yourself? Fortunately for us, for
everyone, the Law of Attraction is not some kind of black
magic (white magic, for the greater good of all, possibly). |
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So how should you use the LoA before your
next interview? Visualise yourself in the interview being
calm and in control, saying and doing all the right things,
giving all the right answers, smiling and laughing just
enough but not too much and hearing the words "I think you
are just perfect for this position (your name here)". As you
hear these words in your visualisation, remember that it
happening because you performed well, not because you used
the LoA to influence the interviewer. |
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In the meantime, while waiting for your
next opportunity, visualise another, even better, job being
advertised in the same industry. Don't use the LoA to try
and get the same job re-advertised. That would be praying
for the other person to mess up and that would be black
magic. I hope this helps to clarify things for you and I am
sure you will find the right position for yourself very
soon. Jack |
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Question: Hi Jack, there is this
girl that I like a lot. We were good friends until I told her
I like her. She has stopped talking to me since then and
deleted me from Blackberry and blocked me on Facebook. She
doesn't answer my calls or emails. I felt horrible and
deactivated my Facebook account, I also got rid of my
Blackberry connection. |
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We haven't spoken for at least two months
now. I miss her and love her a lot. I want her back in my
life and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I am
trying to visualise it every now and then. I have written
down how happy we are to be together, I have our picture as
the home screen image of my phone but I do get low once in a
while and stop believing. |
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Can you help me with this. What should I
do? Thanks G |
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Jack's Answer: Oh 'G', I do
sympathise with your predicament and feel your pain, I
really do, but (as I keep on saying in these pages, over and
over again), you can't use the Law of Attraction to control
other people. What you can do however is to use it to
control yourself. Visualising every now and then, as you
say, is futile. To get results you will need to visualise
and say affirmations at least three times a day, every day.
Don't try to change this girl, it simply will not work. She
is using the Law of Attraction herself, whether consciously
or unconsciously. Instead visualise yourself saying and
doing all the right things to please her and satisfy her
needs. Visualise yourself BECOMING exactly the
right person. Really get into the FEELING of
it, as if it had already happened. |
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In your affirmations say something like
"I am so grateful and happy that I have already become the
sort of person the girl who is right for me wants to be
with. I am filled with joy when I satisfy all of her needs
and make her happy". |
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The "the girl who is right for me" bit is
essential, don't be tempted to substitute this girl's name.
She may be the person you think will make you happy but the
universe may know better. You may be in love with a specific
person but what you really want is the happiness. Don't
limit the universe by telling it how to make you happy. That
just won't work, it will only bring you more pain. Trust me
on this please, I have been there many times. I have a
wardrobe full of flipping T-shirts and so will you if your
don't learn from my mistakes instead of blindly repeating
them. To your happiness, Jack |
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Question: Hi Jack, My name is Lee.
I believe in the Law of Attraction and recently read two
books on it. Since, I have been reciting daily affirmations,
helping others, and thinking positive, I have noticed
several small amounts of unplanned money coming in just in
the nick of time. Just this weekend I received $170 dollars
unexpectedly. My questions are two-fold. I am just 36 years
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1) Does the moon's energy play a role in
the LoA? On 6th March 2012 I woke at 2am to a light shinning
from my skylights. I have owned the home for almost seven
years now and have never experienced such a thing. All of
the lights were turned off but it was as if it was day in my
bedroom. It was the moon shinning though my skylights. The
light was so bright, warm and powerful I could not help but
to gaze at it. I asked family and neighbours who live in my
neighbourhood and who also have skylights and it appears I
was the only person awakened by its energy and brightness. I
was not able to sleep even after the moon's light went away.
Since then, my vision has been blurred but I have had this
unexplained luck. I feel like the luckiest person on earth. |
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2) As recently as two days ago I dreamed
about what I had been asking from the universe. In the
dream, it was just as I asked. What is the significance of
dreams and does this mean my wants have penetrated by
subconscious mind and now its just a case of waiting?
Thanks, Lee. |
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Jack's Answer: Hello Lee. These
are interesting questions. When it comes to subjective
things like these its hard to give definitive answers. As I
describe in my course, the thing that matters is what you
personally believe and expect to happen. If you truly
believe these were true omens than so it will be for you. |
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With regard to the moon, yes she most
certainly has a profound affect on the Law of Attraction. To
use the LoA efficiently, empower your intent with lots of
emotion. About 60% (by weight) of our bodies is water. It
varies from individual to individual and is less in older
people but that's a reasonable ball-park figure. Just look
at the ocean tides, caused by the moon, and you will get an
idea of what she is doing to us. The effect is huge causing
us to be more emotional around full moon. So the full moon
is the best time to send your intent out to the universe.
Witches have always known this. These is something else
about the moon and that is the light she reflects. I can't
explain this scientifically but moonlight seems to affect
our brain weave patterns, shifting us into Alpha or even
Theta. Meditation under a full moon is very powerful. |
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It is unlikely that the moon only shone
through your skylight but the fact that you woke, and were
deeply moved by the experience suggests that you were giving
out a compatible vibration yourself. Maybe this is an
indication that working with moon energy and with the moon
phases may be especially productive for you. |
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Dreams are a very complex subject. Much
research has been done on the nature of dreams. Dream
interpretation is a highly individual thing. I am always
suspicious of authors and scientists who try to say that
something has the same meaning for everybody. So I must
leave you to draw your own conclusion about the meaning of
your dream. Please do try to cultivate that feeling of being
incredibly lucky. That feeling will bring you everything you
desire. If the moon helps you to feel that way then work
with her and you will manifest the things you desire. |
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My very best wishes, Jack |
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Question: Hi Jack, My name is
Julie. First I really want to thank you for what you are
doing. It means so much to me. I've recently watched a film
named "The
Secret" . It made me determined to
completely change my way of thinking. Now I wake up every
morning with this big smile on my face. I removed the
negative thoughts and introduced my wishes and goals. I want
to know if it is good that I'm constantly daydreaming that
those things are already into my life. |
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My scope is clear: I want a certain
person into my life. He is a celebrity. One thing I know for
sure, I truly want him in my life, this is my principal
wish. I'm always daydreaming and imagining that I've reached
my goals. I also feel joy, hope and I'm transferring myself
into the specific feeling, it is almost the same as if it
happened. |
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Please let me know if this method is
working. Could it really happen? Will this person appear
into my life? Will he feel the way I do? Will the Universe
rearrange itself to fulfil my dreams? What should I do next?
In the film it is said that the only things that we have to
do is ask, feel like it is already ours and be grateful. |
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I'd like to thank you from the bottom of
my heart again, Julie |
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Jack's Answer: Hello Julie. first
let me say that the things you are doing will attract
anything you desire into your life if you believe (on a
subconscious level) that it will work and expect it to work.
Please let me repeat "will attract any thing".
However people are not things. People have their own agendas
and are using the Law of Attraction themselves too, whether
they are aware of it or not. So no, sorry, you can't use the
LoA to attract a specific named person. If you could it
would be highly unethical anyway. |
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What you can do is to attract a person
like him, a person with the same characteristics. For
further clarification please see my answer to "Questioner"
further down this page. In order to attract a person with
the same characteristics, just carry on doing what you are
already doing with the slight difference that now you are
working for someone similar rather than that specific
person. Stay open to your intuition and when you get an
hunch about some action to take, take it quickly. The
universe likes speed. |
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Good luck and please do let me know how
you get on.. Jack |
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Question: Hi Jack, I have been
able to use the law of attraction to get a new job get rid
of stress and avoid illnesses but there is an area in my
life which I don't know what I want. I have been with my
children's father for 13 years and we have been through a
lot. A lot of it has been with me putting positive thoughts
in order to help him out of drugs, drug dealing, cheating,
and becoming a better father. He is now drug free, has a
job, is there for me and my children, and is happy with our
lives. I on the other hand still don't see him as the type
of guy that I want. I have always pictured myself with a
hard working man who takes initiative to do things around
the house, is a handy man and of course his personality
meshing well with mine. He is not like that. He waits for me
to tell him what to do. I have to plan everything in ours
and our children's lives, he would rather pay for someone to
cut the grass and fix things than doing it himself.
When it comes to work he's pretty lazy, and we have very
different personalities where we don't understand each
other. I love and care about him but it's more like a care
for a child not a lover. I am really confused on what I
want, I don't know if I should get over it and deal with it
for my children and the sake of being a family or if I
should tell him I am not happy. If I tell him I am not happy
I don't know how to tell him why because after everything we
have been through I stuck with him and now that he is the
best he's ever been I am going to tell him that I don't want
to be with him? I don't know if there is something wrong
with me for feeling this way. I need help figuring out what
to do when I don't know what I want. Please don't tell me
that it sounds like I know what I want, that is also obvious
to me, I just don't know if what I want is the right thing
to do. How can I figure this out? Evelyn |
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Jack's Answer: Hello Evelyn, Thank
you for your question. First I must cover myself by saying
that I am a Law of Attraction coach not a relationship
counsellor. People usually tell me what they want and I tell
them how to attract it into their lives. As you don't know
what you want this is going to be a bit tricky. But you do
want things, you want clarity, you want a satisfying
relationship and you want happiness. So lets concentrate on
attracting those. You have already used the LoA to attract a
new job, and good health so I will presume that you
understand the basic techniques. You could start by
visualising and affirming for the things you want, clarity,
a satisfying relationship and happiness. When you visualise
a satisfying relationship try not to project your partner's
(or anyone else's) face into the image. This way you are
leaving open the possibility of it being with him or not.
Leave that to the universe. Visualise yourself being happy
and contented in a satisfying relationship. As to clarity,
try asking yourself questions such as "Accepting that I
really do love my partner, what do I need to do in order to
enjoy a satisfying relationship and family life". Then
really listen to the answer from that small voice within. |
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The answer may well come that you need to
talk frankly with him about how you feel, give him the
opportunity to change before you throw the baby out with the
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Let me close by sharing a personal
experience of mine. For seven years I was with a really
sweet, beautiful, wonderful, big hearted woman. We were
married for six of those years. She wasn't perfect in my
eyes but she was as close to perfect as makes little
difference. The only drawback was that she couldn't hold her
drink and I used to feel great embarrassment each time she
kicked off in a public place such as a restaurant. We had a
business together which meant we were together 24/7. If only
we could have had some space, space for me to take a more
dethatched view of things. Then maybe I could have helped my
wife overcome her problem. We were never apart, my wife was
always in my face and I didn't make the effort to help her.
Instead I walked out and divorced her. That was five years
ago and not a single day has passed when I have not
regretted leaving her. I think about her and miss her every
day, faults and all. Just bear my experience in mind before
throwing the baby out with the bathwater as I did. Faults
can be changed, with love and more patience. Heck you have
already helped him give up drugs. Compared to that, how hard
can it be to help him become more proactive around the
house? My very best wishes, Jack |
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Question: Hi Jack, I work at a
restaurant and a customer asked me quite shyly for my
number. I was stunned and blubbered "Haha seriously?" To
which he hastily said "No" and continued eating. I also
blubbbered something like "I think I'm too young for this."
which may have been taken as an insult, I'm not sure (he
looked a good 8-9 years older, I'm only 18). I didn't give
him my number but thinking back I wanted to! I want to use
the law of attraction to literally summon his physical
presence and apologise properly as well as actually pass him
the number. How do I go about this?
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Jack's Answer: Hello Questioner,
Thank you for your question If you are familiar with my
writings you will know that I like to quote Bill Harris a
lot. In particular I like his saying that "Whatever you want
there is a certain way of thinking and acting that will get
it for you. Your job is to find out what it is and to be
flexible enough to adopt it." Unfortunately this does not
apply to specific named people. Just like you, the man who
asked for your phone number has free will. Just like you, he
is working (whether he realises it or not) with the Law of
Attraction. So no, unfortunately we can not say that
"whoever you want, there is a certain way of thinking and
acting that will get him or her for you". If only life were
that simple. However when two people are really on the same
wavelength they are naturally attracted to each other by the
Law of Attraction. |
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Your job now is to get your fears and
shyness out of the way so the LoA can either bring him back
or bring you someone similar. Getting clear is probably the
most important part of the LoA. When you are clear about
what you want, you will react appropriately next time a
dishy guy asks for your number. As you follow
my free course you will learn a lot more about this.
Good luck. Jack |
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Question: Hello Jack, Well my
question is simple. I am Hispanic and I love white women. I
want to get married to a white woman and have babies with
her. The place that I come from has very few white women and
I myself do not know any. How do I go about it using the Law
of Attraction? Please help. Thanking you, K.R. |
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Jack's Answer: Hello K.R. First
let me stress for the benefit of the people reading this
that the terminology is yours and not mine. Secondly let me
assure you that yours is not as big a problems as you
probably think it is. Don't worry about how its going to
happen. The 'how' is not your concern. Your job is to get
clear about the 'why'. If the 'why' is big enough the 'how'
will take care of itself and the Universe will arrange
itself for you. I strongly suggest that you enrol on my free
eCourse and follow all the steps I teach you there. If
you do, then the woman of your dreams WILL
come into your life, no doubt about it! She is looking for
you right now but there are certain things you need to
do to make it happen and I explain what those
things are in the course. |
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The very best of luck, Jack |
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Question: Hello Jack. Since last
year I have been a Letting Negotiator working in Hull,
England. However in August, I saw a job advertised on the
internet for a similar position to my current job only with
better pay. So I subsequently applied. They had me for an
interview the very next day, and within an hour of my
interview they called me up and offered me the job. I worked
my two weeks notice at my job in Hull, and started my new
job on the 20th September. On Tuesday 28th September a close
friend of my new boss came into the office and asked to see
if there was a job going. They arranged to go out for tea
and a chat, that very night. My day off was a Wednesday. I
got a phone call on Wednesday morning from my boss, stating
I was no longer needed as she was sacking me. I hadn't done
anything wrong, had no warnings or anything. I haven't got a
contract of employment. Am I entitled to claim for wrongful
dismissal or loss of earnings, seeing as I resigned from my
old job to take up this new role? It seems very wrong that a
firm can just sack me like that after resigning from a good
job, to come to them, and doing nothing wrong. Is there
anything I can do? Harneiss |
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Jack's Answer: Hello Harneiss. What
a bummer! Firstly I must stress that I am not qualified to
offer legal advice. If you are considering suing you need to
get qualified legal advise, or at the very least, well
meaning advice from the
Citizens Advice Bureau, but don't mess about, go and see
a solicitor. You could also swallow your pride, talk to your
previous employer, explain what has happened and ask for
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You are adamant that you did nothing
wrong but is that really true? Did you really do the very
best job you could possibly do? Now I have a reputation for
being blunt so here goes. If you wrote to the company's
customers the same way you just wrote to me, full of
spelling mistakes and capitalisation errors, I would sack
you too (what appears above is my cleaned up, corrected
version of what you wrote). You really must get into the
habit of giving your very best in every moment, regardless
of what activity you are engaged in. When you have mastered
that, start going the extra mile (all explained in depth in
my free
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Then consider whether being sacked realty
was a bad thing in your life. I know it looks that way now
but five years from now, when you look back, you may see how
it fits into a bigger pattern. No guarantees but it often
happens that way. Back in the 1980s I was starting to learn
the principles I now teach. I was doing my affirmations and
my visualisations every day. At the time I had a dead end
job earning 200 pounds a week in Kent. I clung to that
crappy job so hard because I had nothing else. I had just
lost the relationship of a lifetime too and that played on
my mind so much it affected my work and eventually I got the
sack. I was devastated!!! I had lot everything. Well almost
everything, I did have a new girlfriend. I wasn't really
ready for a new relationship but she was very kind and
understanding and was helping me a lot. In fact she taught
me most of this Law of Attraction stuff although we didn't
call it that then. Looking back, meeting that woman was
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The downside was that she lived in East
London, an hour and a half from where I was in Kent. When I
told her I had been sacked and could no longer afford to
make the long journey to see her, see insisted I cut my
expenses in half by moving into her flat. "We will manage
somehow" she said. Although this country boy hated the idea
of moving to a filthy (in those days) inner city slum, I
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Walking through the High Street one day
we came across a rundown indoor market with a booth to let.
We thought, "let's give it a go". It cost me all my
severance pay (one month's wages) to rent that small booth
and stock it with perfumery items, bath candles, potpourri,
and that kind of stuff. Anyway in that dirty, smelly area it
was a knockout. Soon we moved into bigger premises. To cut a
long story short, that was my start in life and had it not
been for the two biggest disasters of my life in quick
succession, none of it would have happened. |
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I don't know whether you are intentionally
using the Law of Attraction (LoA) and doing any affirmations
and visualisations but if you are, this disaster may just be
your gateway to your new life, as it was for me. The thing
about the Law of Attraction is that it is always working,
every second, whether you are intentionally using it or not.
If you are thinking about what you don't want (worrying)
then the LoA will bring you whatever you are worrying about.
However if you are working the LoA deliberately, if your
predominate thoughts are about the life you do want, this
apparent disaster may just be clearing the decks for
something very much better. Christians tend to say "The Lord
moves in mysterious ways, his wonders to behold". Whether
you prefer to say 'The Lord', The Universe', 'The Is', 'The
God and Goddess' or whatever, that is a very true saying.
Again all this is explained in great depth in my free
Course. I hope it all works out for you, Jack. |
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Question: Hi Jack I am very much
new to the Law of Attraction, so my question is very basic.
Can I use the LoA for some one else? If I think good for
someone else will it happen? I want to help my brother
because I love my brother very much. He is having problems
finding a job. He thinks positively and practically, I mean
materialistically. Unless otherwise there is a chance of
hope he won't feel gratified (like most people). How can I
help my brother? Thanks, Shar |
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Jack's Answer: Hello Shar, This is
one of those thorny questions. Using the Law of Attraction
for other people is not really such a good idea. Apart from
the ethical question, LoA does not really work that way.
Thoughts lead to inspired actions which lead to results. How
can your thoughts lead to his inspired action? Of course
your thoughts can lead to your inspired action. If you use
the Law of Attraction to attract ideas you can use to help
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You can help your brother in so many
ways. You can help him boost his self-confidence by the way
you treat him and speak to him. You can give him practical
help by looking for jobs with him and helping him improve
his C.V. All that kind of stuff will really help. Probably
the most important thing you can do is tell him about the
Law of Attraction and explain to him how, what he thinks and
feels, will have a direct effect on the results he gets in
his life. Share my free
Course with him or better still, invite him to register
for it himself. My very best wishes, Jack |
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