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Have a question about the Law of Attraction?  Not sure how to apply the Law of Attraction in your situation? Get your questions answered FREE by Jack Cox, the Law of Attraction Coach. Maybe I can help you succeed.  Your success is important to me so just send your questions to me and I will try to give practical assistance in these pages. I encourage you to contact me directly any time you have questions, need help or advice, or just need someone to confirm that you're on the right track. I'll be up front and honest. I don’t pretend to have all the answers but if I can help you I will. Just think of me a bit like a free agony uncle but hopefully you will find my comments rather more practical. This is a free service BUT please do read all my replies on these pages FIRST. I may be that I have already answered your question or one very similar. If your question is NEW I will give it my best attention.

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But I don't have all the answers.  If you feel you have something to contribute, please share your thoughts with us.  If you wish to remain anonymous that's fine but if you want your name to be used, including contact details and a  link to your website, that's fine too.  So whether you are asking a question or answering one, remember to say what you need every time you write in. 
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Question: Hello Jack, Please help with my situation. I am now a university student and don't have a job, I don't want it either because I'm afraid it will affect my study. But I want to move out, I don't want to live with my parents. I need 20,000 to pay for my living and study for one year. I want to move out asap, I've had enough of them. Is it possible that I can get financial independency and move out within 1 month?

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Jack's Answer: Hello Iamminime, Although I sympathise with your situation, the Law of Attraction is nor magic (at least not in the general meaning of that word). You ask “Is it possible that I can get financial independency and move out within one month?” Yes its possible, but is it likely? Can you learn all the principles I teach in one month? Can you integrate all the principle into the way you habitually think and act within one month? Can you clear out all your unresourceful beliefs within one month? Maybe you can, I hope you will but you would be the first.

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Go for it by all means and I will give you all the help I can but maybe it would be more useful at this time to examine the rift between your parents and you. When I was your age, probably quite a bit younger, I just packed a suitcase, strapped it to my motorbike and took a cheap room in a nearby town. So I do understand how you are probably feeling. But I accepted the price of making that decision. In my case the price was delaying my entry into university until I was 30.

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 Ask yourself which is more important to you in life right now, going to university or being free from your parents. If you want both you are going to have to pay a different price. The price of living my course, every minute of every day and doing all the homework I set. It will be far more intensive study than university.

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I really do hope you make it. If you need one to one coaching let me know. Jack

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Question: Hi Jack, I am a student. I failed my A levels and am currently redoing them. I have been plagued by extreme negativity and feel upset and stupid. I study very hard yet I only get the grades I deserve. But I am determined to get my seven As this year. My dream is to get a place in New York University to study journalism. How do I use the LOA to attract this? Also, how do I use the LOA to get myself to overcome fear and hatred for a particular subject? Thank you so much. Reid

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Jack's Answer: Hello Reid, Many thanks for your question. They key to getting whatever you want in life is to think about it all day. Never, for a moment, think about what you don't want. Never think about failing. Never even think about not failing because your unconscious mind cannot understand the ‘not’. If you think about not failing, your unconscious mind with think you want to attract more failing. Never think about the exams you have already failed. Only think about passing them next time.

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You will need to set goals, to write them down on paper; to convert them into affirmations and repeat them out loud three times a day. All this is explained in my course.

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The reason people fail at this is that, although they may spend half an hour a day saying their affirmations and thinking positive thoughts, the rest of the day their thoughts are focused on what they don't want, what they fear, past disasters and what they are trying to avoid.

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Practice controlling your thoughts because that is what controls everything else.

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Now onto a more practical consideration. As you mention ‘A levels’ I assume you live in the U.K. So why do you want to study abroad? Theirs is a very different culture from ours and their journalistic methods are different. Surely you need to study the methods and infrastructure of the country where you intend to work. By all means take a post-graduate degree overseas later but I would strongly advise you take your first degree here.

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To your success, Jack

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Reid's Reply: Thank you Jack but at times it's hard not to think of previous failures especially when my parents keep reminding me of them. I live in Singapore, where we do A levels too. My biggest dream has been New York University and I want to reach there at any cost.

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Jack's Answer: Hello again Reid, Yes it hard at first, but it gets easier with practice.

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Good luck (which you make yourself), Jack

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Question: Hi Jack, I recently used the Law of Attraction to get an interview for my dream job. In the weeks leading up to the interview, I repeated my affirmations on a regular basis, surrounded myself with positive energy and began to truly feel that the job was mine. The interview went really well and I came out feeling even more confident that this was the perfect position for me. Then last week, the company contacted me to say I hadn't got the job and I was devastated. I still believe that this is the perfect position for me. Is it unrealistic of me to put all my thoughts and energy into still trying to attract this job even if it has been offered to someone else? I don't want to give up hope that I can still work for this company and in this industry. Thanks, Questioner

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Jack's Answer: Hello 'Questioner', thank you for your question. Whether or not you pass an interview is up the the discretion of the interviewer. As I keep saying in these pages, you can't use the Law of Attraction to influence another person. What you can do is to work on changing yourself. The whole principle upon which these teachings are based is that we can attract whatever we want for ourselves, there is more than enough for everyone, we don't need to take from other people.

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Lets just fantasise for a minute. Let's pretend you could use some kind of black magic to get that job. Let's fantasise that you cast a spell. What would need to happen for the spell to work? The company has already given the job to someone else. Tomorrow the boss phones you and says "Are you still interested in the job? We had offered it to someone else but yesterday she was run over by a truck and killed. She was a widow with three young children". 

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How would you feel about the job then? How would you feel about yourself? Fortunately for us, for everyone, the Law of Attraction is not some kind of black magic (white magic, for the greater good of all, possibly).

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So how should you use the LoA before your next interview? Visualise yourself in the interview being calm and in control, saying and doing all the right things, giving all the right answers, smiling and laughing just enough but not too much and hearing the words "I think you are just perfect for this position (your name here)". As you hear these words in your visualisation, remember that it happening because you performed well, not because you used the LoA to influence the interviewer.

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In the meantime, while waiting for your next opportunity, visualise another, even better, job being advertised in the same industry. Don't use the LoA to try and get the same job re-advertised. That would be praying for the other person to mess up and that would be black magic. I hope this helps to clarify things for you and I am sure you will find the right position for yourself very soon. Jack

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Question: Hi Jack, there is this girl that I like a lot. We were good friends until I told her I like her. She has stopped talking to me since then and deleted me from Blackberry and blocked me on Facebook. She doesn't answer my calls or emails. I felt horrible and deactivated my Facebook account, I also got rid of my Blackberry connection.

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We haven't spoken for at least two months now. I miss her and love her a lot. I want her back in my life and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I am trying to visualise it every now and then. I have written down how happy we are to be together, I have our picture as the home screen image of my phone but I do get low once in a while and stop believing.

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Can you help me with this. What should I do? Thanks G

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Jack's Answer: Oh 'G', I do sympathise with your predicament and feel your pain, I really do, but (as I keep on saying in these pages, over and over again), you can't use the Law of Attraction to control other people. What you can do however is to use it to control yourself. Visualising every now and then, as you say, is futile. To get results you will need to visualise and say affirmations at least three times a day, every day. Don't try to change this girl, it simply will not work. She is using the Law of Attraction herself, whether consciously or unconsciously. Instead visualise yourself saying and doing all the right things to please her and satisfy her needs. Visualise yourself BECOMING exactly the right person. Really get into the FEELING of it, as if it had already happened.

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In your affirmations say something like "I am so grateful and happy that I have already become the sort of person the girl who is right for me wants to be with. I am filled with joy when I satisfy all of her needs and make her happy".

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The "the girl who is right for me" bit is essential, don't be tempted to substitute this girl's name. She may be the person you think will make you happy but the universe may know better. You may be in love with a specific person but what you really want is the happiness. Don't limit the universe by telling it how to make you happy. That just won't work, it will only bring you more pain. Trust me on this please, I have been there many times. I have a wardrobe full of flipping T-shirts and so will you if your don't learn from my mistakes instead of blindly repeating them. To your happiness, Jack

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Question: Hi Jack, My name is Lee. I believe in the Law of Attraction and recently read two books on it. Since, I have been reciting daily affirmations, helping others, and thinking positive, I have noticed several small amounts of unplanned money coming in just in the nick of time. Just this weekend I received $170 dollars unexpectedly. My questions are two-fold. I am just 36 years young.

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1) Does the moon's energy play a role in the LoA? On 6th March 2012 I woke at 2am to a light shinning from my skylights. I have owned the home for almost seven years now and have never experienced such a thing. All of the lights were turned off but it was as if it was day in my bedroom. It was the moon shinning though my skylights. The light was so bright, warm and powerful I could not help but to gaze at it. I asked family and neighbours who live in my neighbourhood and who also have skylights and it appears I was the only person awakened by its energy and brightness. I was not able to sleep even after the moon's light went away. Since then, my vision has been blurred but I have had this unexplained luck. I feel like the luckiest person on earth.

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2) As recently as two days ago I dreamed about what I had been asking from the universe. In the dream, it was just as I asked. What is the significance of dreams and does this mean my wants have penetrated by subconscious mind and now its just a case of waiting? Thanks, Lee.

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Jack's Answer: Hello Lee. These are interesting questions. When it comes to subjective things like these its hard to give definitive answers. As I describe in my course, the thing that matters is what you personally believe and expect to happen. If you truly believe these were true omens than so it will be for you.

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With regard to the moon, yes she most certainly has a profound affect on the Law of Attraction. To use the LoA efficiently, empower your intent with lots of emotion. About 60% (by weight) of our bodies is water. It varies from individual to individual and is less in older people but that's a reasonable ball-park figure. Just look at the ocean tides, caused by the moon, and you will get an idea of what she is doing to us. The effect is huge causing us to be more emotional around full moon. So the full moon is the best time to send your intent out to the universe. Witches have always known this. These is something else about the moon and that is the light she reflects. I can't explain this scientifically but moonlight seems to affect our brain weave patterns, shifting us into Alpha or even Theta. Meditation under a full moon is very powerful.

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It is unlikely that the moon only shone through your skylight but the fact that you woke, and were deeply moved by the experience suggests that you were giving out a compatible vibration yourself. Maybe this is an indication that working with moon energy and with the moon phases may be especially productive for you.

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Dreams are a very complex subject. Much research has been done on the nature of dreams. Dream interpretation is a highly individual thing. I am always suspicious of authors and scientists who try to say that something has the same meaning for everybody. So I must leave you to draw your own conclusion about the meaning of your dream. Please do try to cultivate that feeling of being incredibly lucky. That feeling will bring you everything you desire. If the moon helps you to feel that way then work with her and you will manifest the things you desire.

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My very best wishes, Jack

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Question: Hi Jack, My name is Julie. First I really want to thank you for what you are doing. It means so much to me. I've recently watched a film named  "The Secret" . It made me determined to completely change my way of thinking. Now I wake up every morning with this big smile on my face. I removed the negative thoughts and introduced my wishes and goals. I want to know if it is good that I'm constantly daydreaming that those things are already into my life.

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My scope is clear: I want a certain person into my life. He is a celebrity. One thing I know for sure, I truly want him in my life, this is my principal wish. I'm always daydreaming and imagining that I've reached my goals. I also feel joy, hope and I'm transferring myself into the specific feeling, it is almost the same as if it happened.

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Please let me know if this method is working. Could it really happen? Will this person appear into my life? Will he feel the way I do? Will the Universe rearrange itself to fulfil my dreams? What should I do next? In the film it is said that the only things that we have to do is ask, feel like it is already ours and be grateful.

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I'd like to thank you from the bottom of my heart again, Julie

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Jack's Answer: Hello Julie. first let me say that the things you are doing will attract anything you desire into your life if you believe (on a subconscious level) that it will work and expect it to work. Please let me repeat "will attract any thing". However people are not things. People have their own agendas and are using the Law of Attraction themselves too, whether they are aware of it or not. So no, sorry, you can't use the LoA to attract a specific named person. If you could it would be highly unethical anyway. 

 

What you can do is to attract a person like him, a person with the same characteristics. For further clarification please see my answer to "Questioner" further down this page. In order to attract a person with the same characteristics, just carry on doing what you are already doing with the slight difference that now you are working for someone similar rather than that specific person. Stay open to your intuition and when you get an hunch about some action to take, take it quickly. The universe likes speed.

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Good luck and please do let me know how you get on.. Jack

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Question: Hi Jack, I have been able to use the law of attraction to get a new job get rid of stress and avoid illnesses but there is an area in my life which I don't know what I want. I have been with my children's father for 13 years and we have been through a lot. A lot of it has been with me putting positive thoughts in order to help him out of drugs, drug dealing, cheating, and becoming a better father. He is now drug free, has a job, is there for me and my children, and is happy with our lives. I on the other hand still don't see him as the type of guy that I want. I have always pictured myself with a hard working man who takes initiative to do things around the house, is a handy man and of course his personality meshing well with mine. He is not like that. He waits for me to tell him what to do. I have to plan everything in ours and our children's lives, he would rather pay for someone to cut the grass and fix things than doing it himself.  When it comes to work he's pretty lazy, and we have very different personalities where we don't understand each other. I love and care about him but it's more like a care for a child not a lover. I am really confused on what I want, I don't know if I should get over it and deal with it for my children and the sake of being a family or if I should tell him I am not happy. If I tell him I am not happy I don't know how to tell him why because after everything we have been through I stuck with him and now that he is the best he's ever been I am going to tell him that I don't want to be with him? I don't know if there is something wrong with me for feeling this way. I need help figuring out what to do when I don't know what I want. Please don't tell me that it sounds like I know what I want, that is also obvious to me, I just don't know if what I want is the right thing to do. How can I figure this out? Evelyn

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Jack's Answer: Hello Evelyn, Thank you for your question. First I must cover myself by saying that I am a Law of Attraction coach not a relationship counsellor. People usually tell me what they want and I tell them how to attract it into their lives. As you don't know what you want this is going to be a bit tricky. But you do want things, you want clarity, you want a satisfying relationship and you want happiness. So lets concentrate on attracting those. You have already used the LoA to attract a new job, and good health so I will presume that you understand the basic techniques. You could start by visualising and affirming for the things you want, clarity, a satisfying relationship and happiness. When you visualise a satisfying relationship try not to project your partner's (or anyone else's) face into the image. This way you are leaving open the possibility of it being with him or not. Leave that to the universe. Visualise yourself being happy and contented in a satisfying relationship. As to clarity, try asking yourself questions such as "Accepting that I really do love my partner, what do I need to do in order to enjoy a satisfying relationship and family life". Then really listen to the answer from that small voice within.

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The answer may well come that you need to talk frankly with him about how you feel, give him the opportunity to change before you throw the baby out with the bathwater.

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Let me close by sharing a personal experience of mine. For seven years I was with a really sweet, beautiful, wonderful, big hearted woman. We were married for six of those years. She wasn't perfect in my eyes but she was as close to perfect as makes little difference. The only drawback was that she couldn't hold her drink and I used to feel great embarrassment each time she kicked off in a public place such as a restaurant. We had a business together which meant we were together 24/7. If only we could have had some space, space for me to take a more dethatched view of things. Then maybe I could have helped my wife overcome her problem. We were never apart, my wife was always in my face and I didn't make the effort to help her. Instead I walked out and divorced her. That was five years ago and not a single day has passed when I have not regretted leaving her. I think about her and miss her every day, faults and all. Just bear my experience in mind before throwing the baby out with the bathwater as I did. Faults can be changed, with love and more patience. Heck you have already helped him give up drugs. Compared to that, how hard can it be to help him become more proactive around the house? My very best wishes, Jack

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